celebration of life
生命的庆典
anonyo/佚名
i was disurad becae i wanted to know why we as a culture wait until body has passed away before we tell the how uch we love thewhy do we wait until ones ears cant hear before we let the know how uch they an to ？why do we wait until it is too te before we recall the good alities of a pern？why do we build one up after they have gone to eternity？what good does it do then？we share ory after ory，as we ugh，cry，and thk back about what was positive a pern`s lifeyes，it does help pe with the grief of losg one who was special to ，and，yes，it does brg those who are pg closer totherunfortunately，as we lovgly reber this pern，our words fall short of the ears that ost needed to hear the
jt once i would like to see a celebration of life stead of a gatherg of deatha celebration where stories are told，eyes ist over，ughter rgs out，and as the speaker ncdes his or her lovg tribute，the pern they are honorg rises fro his chair and gives the the bigst bear hug！wouldn`t that be thg！the special people t to hear the stories and e to the realization that they have ade a difference on this earth，and all this is done well before they leave their earthly bodies and go to etrnitywhen the evitable funerals fally e，we can say good-bye with the knowled that they knew exactly how people felt about the while they were here on earth
我很沮丧，因为我想知道为什么我们要等待那么久，直到别人去世了，才告诉他们，我们有多么爱他们？为什么我们要等到别人耳朵都听不到了才让他们知道他们对我们有多么重要？为什么我们要等到已经来不及的时候才回想起别人的优点？为什么要等别人死后才将他树为楷模？那时候再做又有什么用呢？我们分享一个又一个的记忆，我们一会儿笑一会儿哭地回忆着他一生中的重要时刻．是的，这的确帮助我们应对失去一个对我们很特殊的人的悲伤，也会让有同感的人更紧密。不幸的是，当我们生动地回忆这个人时，最需要听这话的人却听不到我们的话语了。
我只想看哪怕一次生命的庆典而不是死亡的聚会．在这个庆典中，人们讲着趣事，眼光交流，笑声四起，而当演讲者讲完他或她的爱的情意时，他们尊敬的人从椅子上站起来，紧紧地与其拥抱，这不是件天大的好事吗！那些对我们有特殊意义的人应该听到那些故事，然后意识到他们在世界上制造了不同，所有这一切都应该在他们离开他们尘世的肉体，去往永恒之前做好，这样当最终的葬礼到来的时候，当我们和他们说再见之即，同时明确地知道他们了解生前人们对他们的想法。（未完待续）
【讲真，最近一直用咪咪阅读看书追更，换源切换，朗读音色多，iiread 安卓苹果均可。】